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There are ways to deal with this situation. Once the person gets past
this point, they are home free, but they think that they are going to
die and that's why it's a serious situation. It may not be enough to
remember that they took the LSD and that that's why whatever is happening
is happening. They are still petrified of dying. It also might not be
of much help for the others to tell the person to surrender, go along
with it, that it will be all right and that they are not alone in that
thousands, if not millions of people have done this. If this kind of
talk gets through to the person, then the crisis is over, but what if
it doesn't?
The best way to escape this fear of death is to keep the mind occupied.
Talking to the other people and telling them how you are feeling and
what's happening is good, but the other people have to be quiet, understanding
and listen. The person needs to talk and keep on talking about it, without
the other people interrupting and pushing their viewpoints. If the other
people have no idea of what the person is going through, the best thing
they can do to help is be quiet and again, there has to be at least
one person there who knows what's going on and knows how to behave in
this situation.
Another good idea is for the person in fear of dying to concentrate
on their breathing. As long as they know that they're breathing, then
they know that they're alive. It's that simple. Once they get involved
with their breathing or talking, it's like they are buying time in occupying
their mind until the crisis passes and it will pass. The idea is similar
to having a headache. The person can take aspirins, but until they start
working, if the person thinks about the headache, it hurts. If they
read a newspaper, their mind is occupied on what they're reading and
not the headache. Reading the newspaper has bought the person time.
By the time the person is finished with the newspaper, the headache
might be gone.
If the person tripping is afraid that they will die because their body
and the world will dissolve, it can be helpful if someone holds their
hand. This gives the person a physical anchor and link to the reality
that they're used to. It may be that the person wants both hands held.
It might even be necessary for someone to hug and wrap their arms around
the person. Whatever the person needs, they get. That's what the other
people are there for, not for themselves, but to be of help to the person
who is tripping, if help is needed. Anyone who doesn't understand that
doesn't belong there at all. No one should ever push or pressure the
person who is tripping, even if the person is not in trouble. Suggestions
are fine, but pressure is out. The person tripping is the king that
calls the shots. If they want the TV turned on, it goes on. If they
want the channel changed, it gets changed. If they want the set off,
it goes off. No arguments. That's the way it is. If they want a certain
person to leave, the person leaves, without any feeling of being insulted.
If they want that person to come back, the person comes back.
To be a guide for a person that takes LSD is not something that anyone
can do, no matter how experienced they are with LSD. Timothy Leary put
it this way on page 86 of his book The
Politics of Ecstasy: "The training for this new profession
of psychedelic guides will aim at producing the patience of a first-grade
teacher, the humility and wisdom of a Hindu guru, the loving dedication
of a minister-priest, the sensitivity of a poet and the imagination
of a science fiction writer". How many psychiatrists or psychologists
would even have a clue as to how to be an LSD guide? They are far too
involved in their own ego games.
When the person tripping is feeling the terror of dying, it also doesn't
hurt to pray. For the first time in the person's life, they will know
what it really means to pray. They have never been so scared in their
life and they are literally praying that they will be all right. In
situations like this, in which the person is genuinely sincere and scared,
the prayers do get answered, though it may not seem to be soon enough.
It should be noted that most people will have a great trip and not run
into this problem at all. It had to be mentioned, though, because a
person thinking about taking LSD must be aware of all possibilities
as best they can, pro or con and that is the only con.
The connection between LSD, sex, religion, psychology and society will
be dealt with in the next chapter.
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